I Called My Ex-girlfriend And Took Her To A Restaurant And We Ate A Lot. I Took Excuse To Go And Do POS Payment And That Was How I Left Her To Pay ₦24,000 Bill. I Needed That Closure To Move On

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In every relationship I find myself, I always try my best to please & satisfy my woman even if I have to compromise a lot but it seems no matter what you do, you can never please a woman. Only few women out there are sincere, loyal, faithful and true to themselves. My recent & 4th relationship was the most tasking. I fell in love with this girl out of pity & compassion. She was the 1st child of 14 kids. Her mum is late & her dad is based in Cameroun with his other 2 wives. I vowed to love & care for her & her siblings as if they are mine. I sacrificed all I had to make them happy & comfortable. But the issue is she wanted sex every night but I couldn't attend to her always. My work was time consuming so I can't over stress myself. After 1year & a half she left me & went back to her ex. It took me 5 months to get over it but yet I needed a closure. Recently I called her to come celebrate my birthday with me. I took her to a fast food we eat & drink a lot & she even ordered takeaways 4 her siblings. I took excuse to go & do POS & dat was how I left her to pay ₦24,000 bill.

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RelationshipLast activity 7 days ago

Broke men everywhere!!


Ladies should learn how to stay away from broke men. Broke men are the worst species living on earth. Puke!!

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You must be a shameless glutton to say this. If he was your brother, would you be OK with a girl doing this to him? It's the guy's birthday for crying out loud! She should be the one giving him a treat, not the other way round. And instead of her to respect her broke self and shamelessly full her tummy alone, she decided to disgrace herself by getting take away. Who does that? It is women like you guys that make men ridicule women. Awon alatenuje oshi.

Anonymous

13 days ago

RelationshipLast activity 7 days ago

You need to learn how to easily move on and go into deep soul searching. When you find her, it will be love and not pity and feelings of compromising will become an act of love. Please do not go into your next relationship out of pity or expecting to compromise a lot. There is someone for everyone. Work on yourself, be true to yourself, be proud. See yourself as your own God and you will only find what you look for. look for Gold.


Also to your post, Congratulations if that increase your immaturity ego.


Boss do not do it again o, this is hardcore and it is too much, we are all human we learn to forgive and forget and move on.


I Called My Ex-girlfriend And Took Her To A Restaurant And We Ate A Lot. I Took Excuse To Go And Do POS Payment And That Was How I Left Her To Pay ₦24,000 Bill. I Needed That Closure To Move On

Anonymous

13 days ago

RelationshipLast activity 7 days ago

Hmmm, you're immature a man. Nevertheless, The lady in question is equally untrained, immature,greedy,and filled with demon of immorality.Instead of you to thank God for delivering you from a girl filled with demon of you were ungrateful trying to revenge on menial things. lf you continue in this manner, you will surfer hell in the hand of women. She can hide you manhood in the mouth of yemoja! Fear woman!


There is nothing like being broke. It's a turn off that you go out with someone and all you could think after all is ask for take away. In this case, not even for one person.


This guy try self. I have done it to a girl. Asked a girl out for a date. But she found that occasion as time to eat and request for everything. After all our talk, said wasn't interested but haunty requested for take away.


With conditions and responsibilities I must be fulfilling before she can decide to date me.


I simply asked the service girl for my bill and that she will pay for hers. E shocked her. To her, it was like play. Until I changed it. Nonsense! You're not interested in me but na to bill me. I just went to my car and drove off.


While I was leaving I heard the service girl saying to her;" but una dey Bleep up ooh, how guy go carry you come out and you just dey order anyhow, even when you no hold anything, girl, you Bleep up full time..." she continued...


Wetin concern me. After all, Buhari don give it us in the hardest way, so any girl wey Bleep up, she go collect

Anonymous

13 days ago

RelationshipLast activity 7 days ago

Those blaming the Guy doesn't know how painful it is to be betrayed. My Guy, I no too support you, but I understand why you do am, I be Real Nigga too.


All this girl's this days be like say them no get brain at all, most of them don't have any Common Sense. Do you know how painful it is for someone you stood by, treating you like trash.


You did that for her to know what pains feel like.. Make e pain her say she wan pay for watin no dey her budget. My G. Take handshake


You don't need any respect from her, someone that humiliated you and make you had sleepless night. Don't force yourself in a relationship, it will come someday.


My last relationship ended 2018 and since then, I never thought I would love again, Manchin when know doinz cun still dey misbehave, I fashy am.


People cun dey tell me say I get stone heart, bcs I believe make we enjoy, make we Bleep, if I see say you dey love, I end that relationship, bcs I bargain only on Bleep.


Brotherly I cun see serious girlfriend last year, she was my Birthday gift, smiles, I cherish her a lot, but do you know if she say she is not interested, I won't kill myself, I will take aliba and forget, Bro I believe I need the best always, when she know some of my ex, she jealous, she say na only fine girls I dey date oo, I say I no fine, make I follow wowo girl.


My Guy lockup relationship for the now, just enjoy, no rush, there is no rush in Marriage, Buhari first Son is 30+ and he has a beat future

Anonymous

13 days ago

RelationshipLast activity 7 days ago

She is a cheat and a pest, and she deserved what she got. You served a guy breakfast, wasn't enough. You still bold carry your two left legs come wan come chop. Op sef good.


You for buy expensive drinks like two. Open them on top the table before you left. Make she too know how pains dey be for body.. I don't have pity for cheats .. Imagine she be wan still cheat on her current lover again, if the op wanted the community pussy.


Op why you go even fall in love self. Them use love do you something?

RelationshipLast activity 13 days ago

Nigerian ladies are now scared of financially buoyant men, they see them as ritualists because of stories they read online so they have been pushed into believing that broke men are the best men they can endure and build their fantasy world around till he finally becomes the next Aliko Dangote 


Because of this, financially buoyant young men that drive luxury cars now find it hard to get a decent Nigerian girl's attention. If a rich guy in Nigeria of today driving past sees a beautiful girl he admires standing on the road and dares to stop in his flashy car to ask the girl out or to give her a ride, that guy might end up being lynched, that's if at all the chick even gives him attention to talk of accepting to join him in his luxury car lol.


This seems to be the most confusing time for Nigerian single ladies cos they don't which to pick; the rich guy they are scared could be a ritualist or the broke/average guy who can barely afford to take care of her lol, wahala for single ladies in Nigeria

Anonymous

13 days ago

RelationshipLast activity 13 days ago

No! It didn't take you 5 months to get over her. You never did! If you could do this recently, it means you never got over her. She's haunting you in your thoughts and actions! She has been cruel to leave you, you think? We weren't there, we don't know what made her leave but you are not any better than her. What you did is a wicked thing too. Go and ask God to forgive you. Awon elese!

Anonymous

13 days ago

RelationshipLast activity 12 days ago

Brotherly you've done a right thing at a wrong time to wrong person, you need to find a way for atonement with that lady, she's a very good girl she didn't deserve what you dishes out for her.


You are the insensitive type, a lady want sex every night from you as a factor for her to remain kept by you and you don't see that as a red flag or and a confirmed nymphomaniac, and you refuse to apply common sense that this is just a Bleep material and not a girlfriend less a wife material.


Bros find a way to pacify that girl for your insensitive and Ill treatment before she cursed you because if she curse you no pastor that will be able to bath it off your generation.


I don't know how young or old you are, but you have carried out the most irresponsible act. What did the girl do to deserve that? Were you catering for her & her siblings as a way of railroading them into mental slavery? The girl made it out clearly that she's highly promiscuous & requires sex everyday. Since you can't satisfy her, she left for her ex who probably has a higher capacity libido, instead of cheating while she was with you. What is wrong in that? What you did was a sinful & evil act. You put her in trouble when she didn't put you in any. Trace her, apologise, pay the money & go for repentance because you obviously have the character of a juvenile delinquent, truant & a rascal.


First of all it shows you haven’t gotten over her as you’ve said.. Also what you’ve done is barbaric and uncalled for, that’s a callous act.. it just shows you’re pained and just an unforgiving person.. I’ll love to hear from the lady in question because with this crass attitude of yours, it shows you need REORIENTATION..

RelationshipLast activity 13 days ago

And now you want us to clap for you abi? You are more stupid than stupidity itself .

RelationshipLast activity 13 days ago

YOU ARE WICKED AND VERY HEARTLESS! you told us she has a lot of siblings and yet you did this to her? She at least likes you that's why she had to sit out with you. You should be man enough to say no if you don't want her to than this.


But how person go even calm down chop 24K from an ex you cheated on and even get mind to call someone to ask what they want. This is what stark poverty can cause. She has zero shame and self respect and got served.


While I won't do what you did, I can understand why you did it.

Anonymous

13 days ago

RelationshipLast activity 13 days ago

Some women value sex more than money. She wanted sex, you Dey give her and her sibling money. Na you do yourself. And this second act is childish.


Them don brainwash some of una say na only money women like. I just Dey laugh you.

Anonymous

13 days ago

RelationshipLast activity 13 days ago

Be careful my guy


This happened to one guy in my street...


He loves fvcking olosho and leaving them stranded... He would do fake transfer, sometime lure them to unknown bar and leave them there after chopping their ogbono


After a while this very cool guy with little Yahoo money started stealing around, phones he doesn't need, petty things like noddles and soap


It got so embarrassing that Landlord and Tennant association meeting of our neighbourhood had to wade him and with the help of his family he was taken to a church were it was revealed one girl had cursed and hexed him... He was delivered and had to pack out leaving his rent behind due to shame


Some times you just have to ignore somethings and never do bad regardless of the justification

Anonymous

13 days ago

RelationshipLast activity 13 days ago

u are not mature


In every relationship u should use sense so u won’t lose out when things go wrong,y carry her responsibility?


Y not just do d little u can as a boyfriend n lock up?


If any girl leave me any moment I won’t feel bad cos I don’t invest what I can’t afford to lose


Anything I give any girl I see it as lost so if she leave me or not I won’t feel bad


Even in marriage u invest in your partner with sense cos anything can go wrong anytime,if pastors can go through divorce despite their strong faith n conviction n the fact that they join marriages wetin remain again

RelationshipLast activity 13 days ago

When last did u check ur mental wellness?


STFU! why you no kukuma train her remaining siblings as you no get sense , instead of you to accept your Life and move on with your life, then make a vow you won't be a simp again you still carry the girl for mind. e pain you !, even with the bill wey u leave for her, I can bet my testicles that you have spent more than that during your relationship. She will be a boss and pay for it and walk away. Ewu


I Called My Ex-girlfriend And Took Her To A Restaurant And We Ate A Lot. I Took Excuse To Go And Do POS Payment And That Was How I Left Her To Pay ₦24,000 Bill. I Needed That Closure To Move On

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