How True Is This? Dating A 48/50-year-old Man That Has Never Been Married Before Is A Red Flag - Pastor Shola Adeoye Video

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Dating a 48/50-year-old man that has never been married before is a red flag. You’ll need counseling - Pastor Shola Adeoye.


I know some men in their 40s that have never been married and I do not think it is a red flag. For some of them is a personal choice. While some are actually busy pursuing a career. And there are those who just cannot settle for less so they never had luck finding the women they will want to share the rest of their life with.





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DatingLast activity 9 days ago

Dating any man is still a red flag, age doesn't make a man a potential husband, counselling is for men and women, because of foundational problems and childhood traumas alot of people are caged by their childhood and background stronghold, yes it's crazy for a man at 48/50 to never have been married, but it's possible for some to be good husband material, my point is ,it's not about age, ...so any age prayers , investigate, mental check up is needed.

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How is dating any man a red flag? Abeg go park well

Black women be complicating everything in life. How can any man be red flag? biko inyesu kristi

DatingLast activity 8 days ago

All of you saying his right una go just old turn spinsters there are many men out there na money never make them wan reason to settle down if them toast you make you no gree e no stop another girl from accepting they there make them they deceive una all this pastors wey get money na mostly trash them they cap

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9 days ago

DatingLast activity 8 days ago

I don’t agree with your statement sir , Single at 45/50 doesn’t mean he hasn’t dated before or doesn’t have an experience, all ages needs counseling it’s even the younger ones that should go for counseling more .


Just because he has never been married before doesn’t mean he have never had a girlfriend before! Maybe he experienced heart breaks and betrayals that made him stay away from serious relationship for a while. Please don’t quick to judge people!


In as much as I want to fully agree with him but if we look at it from another angle , what about if he has been facing financial difficulties and decide to wait till he is financially buoyant before having a wife ?

Anonymous

9 days ago

DatingLast activity 9 days ago

This may not be entirely true but i defo do see where he is coming from! I am however mindful of grouping everyone as the same. Its defo a concern to take into consideration but it doesn’t mean that the person should be entirely eliminated!



How True Is This? Dating A 48/50-year-old Man That Has Never Been Married Before Is A Red Flag - Pastor Shola Adeoye Video


DatingLast activity 9 days ago

So make 50 year olds no marry again? Maybe if na when dem see money marry. Mr pastor, you no talk well ooo. This is a silly opinion. He’s too single for long to understand commitment? People wey be 20s-30s understand commitment and are entirely faithful then

Anonymous

9 days ago

DatingLast activity 9 days ago

Why will a man be single for that long 🤷🏼‍♀️ No ex wife, No baby mama it’s definitely a red flag. Too good to be true

Anonymous

9 days ago

DatingLast activity 9 days ago

Sir is right! Some men who fall in this age group and who have never been married have been through a lot so it would be extremely difficult for them to trust a good lady when they finally find one.


100% very correct. Anyone who stays single for long hardly let anyone into their life.


But What about dating 40/50yrs old woman that has never been married before is it supposed to be a red flag too and does the man need counseling before being committed with her ??

Anonymous

9 days ago

DatingLast activity 9 days ago

His right, I traveled outside the country for a year and 8 months, when I came back I find it difficult to tolerate my wife, I was not cheating but I began to see her complaints, noise, quarrels as a disturbance to me.


I will always want to be on my own so I don't get disturbed or she annoying me, sometimes I will even prefer we are quarreling so I have to be on my own and only play with the children. When you live single for too long you'll find it difficult to tolerate or give someone space in your life.

DatingLast activity 9 days ago

There is no rule or law to know who is going to treat u better as a wife or husband…. It’s a connection and energy thing . U can meet the worst person earth and if ur energy and connection match right he will be the nicest person to u . The energy and connection that stems from both energy coming together will determine how and what the relationship will become.

Anonymous

9 days ago

DatingLast activity 9 days ago

Very very true... it's a sign of irresponsibility... sometimes they're even infertile and they know it.. hence d urge not to get married.. and when they eventually get married they marry mature women they feel won't be able to get pregnant cos of age to cover up their inability to father a child.

Anonymous

9 days ago

DatingLast activity 9 days ago

What a stupid talk! So marrying women close to their 40's then without being married before must mean an end of the planet. Show me the textbook where you discovered that social experiment or any proof that certify the authenticity of that fact. Nigerians talks too much without fundamentals.

DatingLast activity 9 days ago

It doesn’t work that way. There are guys that married at that age and they are happy, healthy, and prosperous. And there are those below that age that are horrible in everything. Do you not know that some girls/ ladies like to marry men from that 50’s so far the guy is healthy and not lazy. Money plays a critical role in all these things and not about being younger in age.

Anonymous

9 days ago

DatingLast activity 9 days ago

Talking in the Nonsense . Some of them gets to that age single, because

1. They came from a poor background and wanted to make sure he hustled so that his own kids won’t go through what he went through


2: trynna take care of his siblings who were dependent on him.


3: experienced a heartbreak and wanted to make sure he picks the right person

4: came from broken home ,and wanted to make sure he finds the right person so his own kids doesn’t experience similar situation.


And finally which one he treat you like girlfriend. Oga what are you saying gangan?

DatingLast activity 9 days ago

On this subject, I would advise caution. Not all older men are stable and looking for a long-term relationship. Some are simply very skilled players/trophy hunters with years of experience. The same is true for ladies.

Anonymous

9 days ago

DatingLast activity 9 days ago

According to what scripture in the Bible, institution or law is this man quoting this bullshit from? First of all, marriage is not a ticket to heaven. Secondly, Marriage according to the Bible is not compulsory. Thirdly, marriage is Gods idea and he has a different divine timetable for anyone interested in it. Fourthly, it’s better to be single and praying to get married to the right person than to be married and praying to be single again because you married a devil. Fifth, being single is not a crime or criminal offence according to the Bible or in any nation. Sixth, God time is always the best. So don’t let no fool or ignoramus mislead and confuse you based on some bullshit experience of wrong individuals.

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Did he ever consider that some of those people may be under spiritual attack? I heard a story of a woman who tied her brother spiritually from getting married because he’s the one taking care of her & her children, she did it spiritually for him not to be able to settle with any woman until he’s done training her children through the university. It was a powerful man of God who saw that revelation & broke that bondage before the man could get married at his late 40s

Anonymous

9 days ago

DatingLast activity 9 days ago

You no lie sir, I know one Uncle on this table of 54yrs, Never married, No kids sometimes you will think he escaped from Yabaleft & they can cap Nonsense, Emotional blackmail is their 2nd name .....Dem stingy join the psychological madness weh dey ground😂

DatingLast activity 9 days ago

Please have you all dated single 45-50 years old men before or married them to affirm this Pastor's opinion? If those in that range of age are being shaded as red flag, how come many young couples are having unspeakable marital problems?


Why do we now have the disturbing high rate of marital violence, separations, divorces, murders, molestations, abuses and etc among young couples? In my own opinion, you will always find the good, the bad and the ugly in all marriageable men/women. Just pray for your own man and woman. Who doesn't need counsel?


This talk makes no sense . The most constant thing in life is change . A man who is not married at 50 is likely to have had relationships with women who where not ready to be married or he did not see the qualities he wanted in a wife in the .


These pastors keep Gasing y’all up putting a time frame on marriage . Not every individual are all over the place racking up body counts in the name of looking for Mr right . Ronaldo is going 37 and is not married to his Gf and might likely not marry her . These pastors is close minded some individuals will live with you are life partners for ever and take perfect care of u than people in a marriage

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