How Do I Explain To My Friend That Fifteen Year Old Girls Are Children?

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We first met during the service year. He was twenty-three at the time, and I assumed it was a one-off thing. He never showed interest in females older than fifteen and was quick to approach them whenever the chance appeared. The three girlfriends he dated in two years were eighteen, eighteen, and nineteen, respectively. I saw nothing wrong there until he told me they were the ones who made moves to secure his interest. Left to him, he’ll rather date girls below eighteen. We lost contact eventually. Last year we crossed paths again. He has two children with a grown woman, though they didn’t marry. He has all the time to chase any woman he wants. Unfortunately, he’s back to pursuing romantic friendships with fifteen-year-old girls. They swear for this person?! His Facebook profile is littered with underaged female friends. I’ve tried to explain to him that he will face prison time if caught in developed nations. He doesn’t care and says Naija is a different ballgame. How do I tell this almost fifty-year-old man that children are forbidden?

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Many pedophiles come to me to teach them, and I do sometimes outside and sometimes indoors, and such thoughts never cross my mind. I give them teenage books about sexual purity and youthful vitality, and they respect and like me because I don't disgrace myself like most of you who can't control your third leg. All thanks to Jesus and Holy Spirit that lives in me.

Even these girls' parents allow their daughters to come to me because they trust me enough not to behave like a rabid dog like most of you.

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You sound like a pedophile in training


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All of them are pedophiles. I've had Nigerian men (old men o) ask me out because they think I'm younger than 16. Your friend is a pedophile and will be trialed and prosecuted if he's found guilty of sexual relations with underage girls.

It would help if you told him attempting to even sleep with underage girls is a crime in Nigeria. This was among the charges leveled against Baba Ijesha. Your friend is a disgrace to everything with a penis_. You should also be ashamed of calling someone like that your friend.

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I thought he was in his late twenties or early 30s till you mentioned he's almost 50.

There's no hope for someone who's lived that long and still wants to flirt with minors. E don enters his body. Talking to him will be a waste of time. Just leave him. Maybe life might knock some senses into him because such people don't change... At almost 50... Bro, just pray for him... If prayer does not work for am, just free am. Even our police suppose don get a lot of reports for this man and still let him go each time after he bribes them. this matter too regular for this Naija wey we know.

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First of all: You're the person; stop tagging your invisible friend. So painful how you matured men go about molesting toddlers. Oga, you're a pedophile. Please don't lie to us. It's your invisible friend; you're the person involved in that shameless act... Liar! Mr. Linus! Oga Lie Muhammad!

Secondly: How do you convince a toddler to sleep with you, if you're not a rapist

My humble advice for you... Please, Go to the nearest police station and report yourself; tell the police you're a potential child molester and a great pedophile... I'm sure the police will take the case up from there!

Jesus Christ!! What are these Monsters called men turning into? How can you be sexually attracted to a kid? May God judge every pedophile and rapist both in this life and Hereafter.

Shameless men!! Leave her alone!

How Do I Explain To My Friend That Fifteen Year Old Girls Are Children?


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Me ehn, I nor be Muslim o, but one of d tin wey I respect for their religion na early marriage.

God makes females begin to menstruate/ovulate know d tin wey e dey do.

Na western civilization cause women to 'get ready for marriage in their twenties after spending most of their time seeking western education.

By the time she finishes schooling at 25, diminishing returns begin to set in.

There are records In both d bible and the Quran of young teenagers married off in their teens.

Which wan beta pass now: to settle down on time and born all d 'bornables' sharp-sharp or be distributing d 'box' free of charge to every tom, dick and harry in d guise of 'dating,' only to be looking for a mega-simp to savoir d leftover after she's made d rounds.


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The age of consent in Nigeria is 13!

218. Any person with unlawful carnal knowledge of a girl under the age of thirteen is guilty of a felony and is liable to imprisonment for life, with or without caning.

Any person who attempts to have unlawful carnal knowledge of a girl under the age of thirteen is guilty of a felony and is liable to imprisonment for fourteen years, with or without caning.

A prosecution for either of the offences defined in this section shall be begun within two months after the crime is committed.

A person cannot be convicted of either of the offences defined in this section upon the uncorroborated testimony of one witness.

221. Any person who-

(1) has or attempts to have unlawful carnal knowledge of a girl being of or above thirteen years and under sixteen years of age; or

(2) knowing a woman or girl to be an idiot or slowpoke, has or attempts to have unlawful carnal knowledge of her;

He is guilty of a misdemeanour and is liable to imprisonment for two years, with or without caning.

*It is a defence to a charge of either of the offences firstly defined in this section to prove that the accused person believed, on reasonable grounds, that the girl was of or above the age of sixteen.

A prosecution for any of the offences defined in this section shall be begun within two months after the crime is committed.

A person cannot be convicted of any of the offences defined in this section upon the uncorroborated testimony of one witness.

The provision in the 2nd bolded of section 221 says it all. That provision does not exist in section 218.

The age of consent is 13!

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Shame! An average Nigerian is a pedophile

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Sadly your friend is a predator and a child molester, it’s good that you have always tried to help him, but he refused, be closer and ensure you know when he is inviting an underaged, then call the police and let them arrest him. You will be saving innocent little girls… Thanks, and God bless

Note: I don’t know where you guys live, but you have to know the age of consent if it’s abroad; I know Naija barely pays attention to those

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That's the problem with westernized culture; once a child starts seeing her flower, she's now a woman; the problem now isn't being a child; it's undue taking advantage of them for sex and premarital pregnancy; this is what society should frown at not their age, its the safest time for a woman to birth and recover her shape and body firmness, 15 to 22.

What are you doing explaining anything to the dingbat when what you ought to do instead is report him to the police? 

What are you doing trying to teach a 50-something-year-old man with kids what his brain should have worked out at his age? We have Law enforcement services for situations such as these. Report him to the parents of the children or the authorities directly and find yourself better people to associate with. 

And why do you even address him still as a friend of yours? 

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If he does not learn from the Baba Ijesha saga, he will never learn again in this life. Maybe jail time will make understand reality.

By the way, a 15 years old lady cannot give consent. So the support question is out of it, just like it happened in the Ex-deputy Senate president’s issue.

Consent and age were out of the question when he found himself in an illegal organ harvesting saga.

It was too late when he finally understood that consent of the victim and age is immaterial as long as there was an element of financial inducement. The suit he filed at the FHC didn’t avail much.


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Some Nigerian men would argue about my age because they want a younger person; for instance, I tell them I'm 20 years, and he will say it's not possible that he believes he's asking a 14years old out. I cannot be 20 because he wanted an underage and thought I was underage.

I will never believe any Nigerian man's side of a rape story because I know how useless Nigerian men are. I usually had depression when men asked me out when I was 10-17years below; now I know what happened. Because they would be disturbing me and same people will threaten you must not tell anyone.

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