What Profession Would Stop You From Dating Or Being In A Relationship With Someone?

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I recently hung out with many girlfriends I hadn’t seen in a very long time. I guess everyone has been busy lately, so I was appreciative to get the chance to catch up with my girls. As usual, those single ladies complained about their absent relationship status. “Where were all the good guys?” “Why do they all live with their mama or have multiple baby mamas?” “How come they don’t have great jobs or make a lot of money?” I quietly sat there listening, not missing any of my single days. However, the more I heard, the more questions formulated in my head. “What includes a great job?” “What is a lot’ of money?” After all, those things are pretty comparative, so I was curious to learn what types of guys they were alluring too and why they felt these men weren’t adequately good. One friend said, “The doorman in my building asked me out. Can you believe it? Like I’d date ‘the help.’” Suddenly, I began comprehending why some of these women were still single. “What’s wrong with the doorman?” I asked. “Uh, he’s a doorman,” she responded as if the answer was obvious. I followed up by asking if it was just the concierges she was against or any man who was in a service/customer service job. After all, “the help” is not limited to doormen, maids, butlers, janitors, or any other job that reminds her of “slavery” (her words, not mine). Service industries also include positions within sectors such as hospitality, sales, public health, and any other work where your responsibility is to service or be of service to other people. But because those were still considered service industry jobs, were they too deemed not respectable? “Would she not date a man in any of those fields?” I thought to myself. What profession would stop you from dating or being in a relationship with someone?

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