Lady Decries The Apparent Trend Of Abuja Married Women And Men Cheating On Their Spouse's People Because Of Money.

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Lady Decries The Apparent Trend Of Abuja Married Women And Men Cheating On Their Spouse's People Because Of Money.

I really don't understand what is going on in this Abuja. The trend of married women and men dating other people because of money. Where is self-respect? I'd rather lull myself with work than take a man's money

And most of them have jobs and are earning decently. What exactly are you looking for?

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Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

They are looking for the extra. That extra they would not afford to spend with their own money. They are enjoying life at another person's expense. That selfish greed that is gonna purge them, and in a few years it will be only regrets. That way the looks fun now but the end is destruction. That lifestyle wouldn't give them the guts to correct their children because they are too ashamed or guilty. That corruption they will rather blame their government than themselves for practicing. At the end all is vanity.

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I hope this includes the men too, the way men scold women about infidelity if they scold themselves like that, this world would have been a better place. But they prefer insulting others rather than look inward.

The funny thing about this randy lifestyle is this- it is a temporary enjoyment and happiness. But the regrets and consequences that come from it are always huge, shameful, and devastating. They call it enjoyment and I call it self-destruction.

Moral decadence and lack of self-worth and respect. People are shameless these days because of greed

Anonymous

17 days ago

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

As a married woman of almost 10 years in Abuja no married man has ever really toasted me, once I tell them I am married gaskia they go their way and respect me,married men have never looked at my side, highest is admiration and thats allโ€ฆ so when i hear stories like these I am like is it the same Abuja I live in where u hardly see married women except in children โ€˜s parties or schools, weddings, even at the workplace school runs no fit allow anyone to flex so where is the time to cheat self? ๐Ÿ˜Œ

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you are lucky then. Even young boys wonโ€™t let one drink water and drop cup. They tell you they can see your ring but it wonโ€™t stop them. Itโ€™s a crazy city. Itโ€™s always been.

sis no worry, u dey go decent places, or u just don't observe. Even in those kids parties e many things wey dey occur for there.

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

I'm afraid I have to disagree with your opinion. Adultery and fornication are just like a game for men, while it is a money-making venture for most ladies except for those who are just after Knacking

Everyone with their lifestyle.

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When ashawo is in their blood eh, even 1million a day job will not stop them from sleeping with a man for money and you will be surprised that they do it for lesser than they earn from their job

Anonymous

17 days ago

What about the married, en that sleep around what is in their blood, olosho? Idiots it is always about women for fools like you that can't take responsibility for their actions.

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

Anytime somebody says anything about Abuja, I am always surprised because the times I have been there it is always quiet as if nothing happens there. Abi, e get where e Dey happen?๐Ÿค“

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still as quite as you knw , but my dear a lot is going on low key , maybe because you donโ€™t have people giving you hot gist that will make you open your mouth for hours ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ ... this city is another sodom and Gomorrah ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Remain dia ooo! But no come dey wonder begin axe too many qwesions wen your brain no fit carry the answersโ€ฆ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚

lol๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ Aswear
Where them dey ah we dey find them na๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

na quiet people dey bad pass na so as things going on low key in quiet cities like Abuja too ๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜„

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

Na employed people carry prostitution for head na. Dem go use their actual job to cover their lifestyle. Unemployed ladies are learners. If your wife comes home with a new phone, oga automatically thinks she buys am because she gets work. But 99% of the time, na man give am after secret shagging. Naija dey on speed lane to hellfire.

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Anonymous

17 days ago

When men were cheating, did you complain? Men do not know that when women start their own, they cannot be controlled. Late Myles Monrow warned about this in one of his teachings. He said that men are setting a bad example, and when the women copy, their own will worsen.

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

The holier than thou art in Nigeria is a problem. We are morally indecent, so there are more religious establishments than industries in Nigeria. It's time to start allowing young people to discuss sex and also talk and take sex seriously in marriages. People are often judged because they want to discuss sex freely, and even women find it hard to get married if there is gossip about her enjoying sex. It's okay to enjoy sex. Sex is natural. Sex is divine. It is meant to be part of life.

Spouses should talk about this. If the husband is underperforming, there should be no shame in correcting it. If the wife is not adventurous or spontaneous in bed, it's okay to work on it. This will not stop serial cheaters but will go a long way in reducing infidelity among married people. Sex education for married people Biko

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

Itโ€™s called endtime!!! Nothing is strange anymore. 65 marries 19 theyโ€™ll say (as long as sheโ€™s happy) Pastor marry member wife (They say who are we to judge) Papa snatch pikin girlfriend (they say the boy should move on) Nick Canon pregnantโ€™s the 28th lady (theyโ€™ll say โ€œna man e beโ€) DONโ€™T MOVE WITH THE CROWD, EVERYTHING HAS GONE WRONGโ€ฆ STAY FOCUSED!!!

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thank you for this. ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ
Unfortunately, immorality rules the world these days. Everything that used to be sacred is now considered as normal.
I pray people wake up and understand the devil is on rampage.

what's wrong with 65 marrying 19?!...Or Nick Cannon impregnating 28 women?!.. Or you think these things started in this generation?!

Anonymous

17 days ago

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

The women's record is thrice as much as the men's own when it comes to cheating..Leave them o. let them enjoy their life. They shouldn't complain when their children start living the same lifestyle of sleeping around. I pray wives and husbands who indulge in this should give birth to more female children with an insatiable desire for sex. So that I would make whores and pornstars out of them...am not on the outside looking in, nor am i on the inside looking out. But I am in the dead center looking around..

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In your bid to show your one-sided bias, you forgot that both men and women own the children. Someone will make porn stars and prostitutes out of your children. Amen.

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

My mouth cannot explain what I saw in Abuja. The solicitation from married women starts with "what will you buy for me?". That is a loaded question because it usually ends with a hotel room appointment. As she correctly pointed out, these women are married, employed, or have businesses. The allure of free money trumps loyalty/self-respect. Based on my experience, I will not exclude anyone because these are the same women I watch on their WhatsApp statuses and are in churches falling under the anointing. May God help us.

Anonymous

17 days ago

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

Nigerian men are also not affectionate. They believe once you give a woman money, it's okay. Once you buy a car for your wife is ok. Some men need to learn their wives' G spot etc, how to make their wives feel good romantically. The same applies to women. They think once they have prepared egusi, its ok. Some will not give blow jobs or doggie. What do you think will happen to a being or animal created to need this satisfaction? It will seek it outside. Plain and simple

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

They want to play. That is all. That is the new assignment devil just released into circulation especially in Abuja. Do you know that this January alone 4000 couples have filed for divorce in Abuja??? And the 4000 marriages are most 1 year old. Marriage is under satanic attack.

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he painful part of that divorce is when the husband probably have not finished paying the debts from the elaborate wedding they had ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

show your data...you just saw a post and believe hook n sinker. saw that post too and counter evidence to debunk it

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

All these ladies bringing exaggerating these stories about married women are frustrated ladies. People say negative stuff about things they lack

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Anonymous

17 days ago

Speak for yourself if you are married, residing in Abuja and doesn't cheat, does read comments and go, i reside in US and I'm telling you married women do cheats in Abuja, very simple as ABC, in fact many cheating within the same office and agencies.

Anonymous

17 days ago

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

Shebi in Nigeria, you are only recognized if you have money. So what do you expect? It is pure greed. The other day a wealthy customer who came to my shop asked me(a married woman) to meet him in a hotel. I told him it was an insult and he was shocked that any right-thinking fellow would reject his advances. A very religious married man o

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

I know for sure that some married women are also involved. Men made theirs so bad that, they are willing to sacrifice their own wives for side hens. What do you expect to happen, once evil is born it will surely give birth to more evil. The solution is all men /women go back to the Holy Word of God/ Hear the true Gospel of TRUE MEN of God and live in God's Holy Word. If not the worse is yet to come. Men with good wives please don't make them feel neglected... oooh

Anonymous

17 days ago

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

Sex is food to majority of people. What we fail to realize is that it also becomes an addiction. Most people are addicted to sex but think it's normal and okay. I mean, some can't even go a month without it talkmore of years. Addiction is a sickness so they are sick with a disgusting habit.

Anonymous

17 days ago

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

It's not just in Abuja but widespread in the west. A married was toasting me and started by saying I know you are married just like I am, and wanted to know my number of kids, and I was left speechless. I have always heard Yoruba women cheat

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

Lol, only In Abuja a man will go to club with a lady and end up lodging with a man ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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they don't know warris going on. This Abuja, you have to carry binoculars microscope because the kind of craziness happening no be here

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

I don't think they do it for the money rather it used to be mostly the men looking for fun and it was beginning to look like the norm so the women who would before hold back and some unhappy with their marriages decided to join the trend......am just guessing ๐Ÿ˜‚

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

Lack of contentment, lack of self-discipline. Marriage cannot cure lust, that's life from single to married. While single sleeping with or jumping from one man to another for material things when you can afford it is always hard to stop.

Marriageโˆ˜Last activity 17 days ago

The level of cheating partners as increased massively since social media become part of us Its happens everywhere. Loyalty is now expensive even the richest people on earth canโ€™t afford it.

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