"I Will Not Be Numbed Or Persuaded To Accept What Does Not Align With My Faith Or Family Values" - May, The First Wife Of Yul Edochie, Speaks On Polygamy.

Aunty, stop confusing yourself, thinking you are confusing the world. You love the fame, money, and attention this has gotten you. You don't align with him, yet you still live with him, sleep with him, and still bear his name, "YUl" in everything you do, more like his entire existence, which he is. You can walk away, move out of his house, go to court, file for divorce, do something and stop singing the same song to us every day.

What is bad in having a second wife if you can't stay then move out? Who knows what YUL has been going through all this while? Some people that have not tasted marriage or those that just entered go dey misyan. A lot is going on in those beautiful flats you see as you drive along the road—this life no balance, my people. Let people be. Is it not better you marry a second than have side chicks?

May can't file for divorce. That is accepting defeat. If I'm a married woman, the last thing I may do is to file a divorce, let Yul file it, and then may sign for him. We know Judy's game May is going nowhere. Is her marriage, and yul did not divorce her, so what? May ur write-up is excellent and very intelligent. Let the game roll.

Any woman who divorces her home for someone like Judy is weak, and if you are weak in crises, u are weak indeed. May stand and fight it out if you tire, hand the batten to your daughter. Judy should remain outside and be a mother hen Marriage without evidence is a scam Judy will realize that We Nteje people don't recognize her when the time comes to let her be running her mouth like parrot queen Sheba my foot.

Yet you are answering May “YUL” Edichie.

You are already in a polygamous marriage whether you accept it or not.✅

To make matters more interesting. . . . You dey carry both im FIRST AND LAST NAME gum bodi, troway ya papa name come join on top.

I know it takes a while to change all documents and passports to your maiden name.

Ok to answer EDOCHIE, but ANSWERING “YUL” ? ? ? E get as e be.

Summary: I don’t do polygamy and the reason i am still in the house is that we built it together. The silent message here is that they built the house together. This is message is about Yul who came out the other day to say, that social media should note that they are still living together in the same house. Unto say May no Dey complain 🧐

I agree. She should not follow them to enter the mud. The comments here show the mindset of most Nigerian men — seeing cheating as a birthright and women as sexless drones— and that is why all of you will be shocked in the years to come this one that paternity test is becoming more popular. 

If you are cheating on your wife and raising your shoulder on tops like all these comments, and your wife is not trying to kill you or expressing her pain subtly like May is, some man is def bleeping her on your behalf. What Yul did was not polygamy. It is ADULTERY. 

Do you think cheating has a gender? That is like saying sleeping or eating or sexual urge has gender. Everybody has it in varying degrees. Some men don’t even really like bleeping like that. Some women, too, can go without sex for a year and no shaking, especially circumcised ones.

Meanwhile, other women need their machine on tough stains cycle at least three times a day, or they will not balance. And man can hardly keep you. Why do we think sex toys exist and the market is so significant? A single man cannot satisfy one average woman with normal libido. 

Cheating or sexual urge has no gender and varies from person to person. As I dey like this, I am pissed at my husband cos he gets spent after one lazy round, and I want more. Call me ashawo, but that is reality. We find other men sexually attractive and want to bleep them too. Society frowns on women more because historically, most were jobless in the past, depending on a man for sustenance, so any sign of cheating the man will kick you out. 

So how will she eat? So she had to do it secretly, and that mentality has persisted to now when women do not have to take that nonsense while men flaunt theirs. But now wey na everybody dey work and even some women are breadwinners, you want to compare today’s woman with your grandmother. She depended on a man for her next breath and so had to open her legs for him to infect her with her rival’s yeast or staphylococcus infection on your diseased penis? Heh heh heh

In as much as I'm a may supporter I don't really see the need for this post even though I still stand my grounds that my darling may should not be underrated by yul and judy because she's too intelligent and blessed.Yul should do the right thing and stop this judy nonsense because the cry of a woman like may can destroy nations I'm sure people who are spiritually sensitive will understand what I'm saying.

Another important fact is This is what a Virgo woman can do ,if you don’t believe zodiac sign nah you know don’t come for me ,but Virgo women and calm,Very tolerant And homely ,wise,smart and Not in a haste ,they will get to there point slowly and surely ,how did I know ? My mother is a Virgo ♍️,This woman here is one with that of wisdom and very calm,this to shall pass

Maturity speaks you can never cajole be to accept what you don’t believe in, to hell with what people will say, it is better to reject it than to force things later, the man has made a choice without considering his wife and children, let the woman too make her choice without considering him ✌️

I admire her... Some men seem to believe they can do anything and get away with it. She is the owner of her life, and she has the right to decide how she wants it. I know it's tough but she should follow her heart.

If "no be gra gra" was a person👏👏very calm and in control.... especially the way she is taking care of herself and going after her goals....uncle is falling in love again ....even second wife dey form respect for her.....this is the things that happen when you find your self worth again as a woman.

I agree with you you can't be sharing a man why u stay faithful because you are a woman please men before you embrace your nature like some of u say please ask your wife to know her view on polygamy me personally will not even leave in the same house with you or still keep your last name may is really nice the day u choose to cheat just pray i don't catch you

Bia nwanyia better issue divorce paper give yul make everyone rest .ogini di bringing ur domestic and personal issues out I public for us to do what with it now. We all have our problems in Life we are dealing with. U don't see nia long dragging our Dede udoka for the public. If the marriage don tire you oak and go yul is not forcing or threatening you. Yul is not the only man out there na , you are resourceful you can attract any man you want. 

Yul chose to take a second wife is not a crime you, too can do the same. I can do without a man. I'm strong and independent. Decide for yourself, your marriage, and your kids. Whatever comes out of it you live with it. We live through the consequences and aftermath of our decision electing death daft bigotted Fulani jihadist Buhari. It is a miracle for some of us who are still alive.

This is lady that knows her worth. You accept NO POLYGAMY. LOBATON. Get a divorce and move faster than they can imagine. He doesn’t deserve you, he is not worth it at all, he was just a phase in ur life, and trust me, someone out there is ready to make you happy for the rest of ur life.

My super woman. A queen. No bowing down to narcist and egocentric men like yul. Only stupid desperate women like Judy with no market will bow down just to answer Mrs. That's the way to go may. I love this woman

No one can say it will go down well quickly, just like that with you. Still, as you said, this is the time to stay calm. also you are a strong and genuinely matured lady, pretty too but consider not coming to social media with an issue in your deepest of heart like this. The Good Lord is your strength. you still have a better future ahead of you with your entire household. #wordenough

How can a man hurt this beautiful soul ? Why are men like this? What do they really want in marriage? If you can't marry one why go foe more?

If @yuledochie is man enough, he should move out and go start life again with his baby mama! @mayyuledochie started this one with him and he chose to go Waka with that other girl, so May automatically owns this house with her kids!

He chose that lifestyle and needs to pay for it. May, plsssss do not leave your sweat for that home wrecker! You own the "home" you built, let them go and build theirs together. She thinks it's easy? Mscheew. Looking for soft landing? Set awon i cannot suffer. Shior

Yul God will punish you specially. Not all women deserves this. May is definitely not one who deserves this and this will teach some women the wrong lessons. No be every man them dey suffer with. God forbid say make woman wey I sabi meet man like Yul.

For people still asking if she will leave after reading all this, she just made you all know that she jointly built the house with him, so it is equally her house and she is not going anywhere and she is not staying as a wife either.

Yul should stop boasting that " we are both living in MY mansion " , now is clear to him that living together is different frombeing " happily married " , Make yul Park out of that mansion and give that woman some breathing space to heal abeg .The pridee they say goes before a fall , yul edochie the fact that you did not discuss your decision with your wife about a second wife was and is your biggest mistake, some mistakes can't be corrected.

For the people asking, why are we still talking about this? Don't forget she posted this on her personal page, and the blogs lifted the write up from there, so if you have a problem with it, fight the blogs, or scroll past it. May has the right to express herself on her page like we all do.Thank you.

Yeye yeye yeye what a silly excuse whenever they don't want to leave their husband they will build the house with him just like mercy aigbe husband 1st wife claimed when all they did was buy one picture frame. 

You disagree, yet you still live with him, sleep with him, invite him to your party, even hold hands and leave the stage while fooling us. Aunty, abeg rest, you want to keep cashing out from advert money and all the pity deals you have been getting from everyone cause if not, your ass would be in court by now. Fear won't even let him come close to you. Still, you accepted him in private but here in public, fooling us cause you love the attention and money we give you.

One man’s meat is another man’s poison. Wetin Regina embrace May disgrace. Please ask your spouse before taking irrational decisions

Waoooo So yul truly married another wife I actually thought this was all cruise before, no matter What May must have done, I don't think the best reaction was to marry another wife and even come boldly on social media to brag about it after making people feel you have such good morals over the years,

it would have been better you flirt around with millions of girls, so we can know you have grown to realize, the good boy no dey pay, rather than taking another wife. that is extreme and shows you were not a strong man but very weak, to let your emotions ruin the image that you have built over in the years with just a sudden decision. after having such beautiful kids. Wetin another woman wan born again wey go reach the one your first wife born...

Bros truly u no try... Now u dey run kitikiti to show to the whole world that you two are okay meanwhile is all lies

Anty stop confusing yourself thinking you confusing the world, obviously, you're loving the fame, money, and attention this has gotten you. You don't align with him yet you still live with him, sleep with him, and still bear his personal name "Yul" in everything you do more like his entire existence which obviously he is. you can walk away, move out of his house, go to court, file for divorce, do something and stop singing same song to us every day.

What nonsense you're saying you don't align with him but you still live with him and play the wife role, who are you fooling? Words without action are trash trying to keep the paycheck and deals coming in. Inukwa!!...so she can write excellently like this I love that👌but polygamy has come to stay in your home take it for your peace of mind

She said so much yet didn't seem to say anything... These kinds of people you don't see them coming because they no dey shalaye. A queen and more. Your wisdom and calmness should be studied...