‘I Hit Her With A Pestle’- Suspect Recounts How He Murdered His Abuja-based Girlfriend, Who He Met On Facebook Two Years Ago (video)

She was 48, he is 31. Clearly, a desperate woman who wanted to get married at all cost. How she thought she would tame a young 31 yr old man bits me. A terrible mistake she made. It is easy to blame the guy for her death and of cos most convenient to do so! But her contributory negligence is largely responsible for her death. So sad. I pray for the repose of her soul 🙏

an you imagine this sorry excuse of a man. She was abusing you and you stayed? You saw free car, free accommodation, everything free! You intention from the one set was greed because if hitting her with a pestle was a mistake, you would have stayed back to ensure all was well instead of running off with her car and phones. Oh Mr Longer throat, you had a motive! I wish the worst of all. Now, if you a single lady doing well in Abuja, please be mindful of the kind of men you roll with. Many are looking for their next free accommodation and how to extort you in the name of love. From fake love up and down. Some Abuja Men are viciously heartless. They will ruin you!

It baffles me when I see ladies dating a broke, jobless man all in the name of “Love”… majority of broke guys are naturally toxic/bitter & prone to getting angry quickly.
Regardless of the man’s age, once he’s financially handicapped, it’ll always end in this type of sad story.

I think you ladies are just naturally in love to toxic men cos the red flags 🚩 are always there but you choose to be blinded by their shenanigans 🤦🏽‍♂️

Once a guy tells u he’s jobless or broke & wants to squat or co-habit with u in ur apartment just decline it & end that relationship cos in no distance time it’ll end in tears or worse u loosing ur life.

Love should be the least category when seeking for a companion (I’m talking about both parties here now) Love makes us blind & reduces the actual fact & judgment we should always look out for when going into any relationship.
This story is so sad 🤦🏽‍♂️

She gets angry when you’re on the phone. Something must have transpired to warrant her getting angry and insecured about your phone calls, could it be that she has caught you so many times on your phone with a lover, she’s feeding, clothing and housing you and you’re spending her money on other girls and expect her to not feel insecured. You sold off the car she bought for you, you are a serial thief and to top it off with murder? Chai I think this is a pattern for him only that this time he got caught.
Majority of our societal ills are committed by men, and it’s high time we channel the most discipline to the boys and our sons, cos we train and instill morals in our daughters and overlook our sons, forgetting that in the future, the sons we disregard might be paired up with our daughters and bring harm to them. Parents, please let’s do better with our kids upbringing regardless of their gender.

All these Abuja fine boys and beard gang, ladies stay away from them, they are broke ass and their target is working-class ladies with high-paying jobs. Once they lure you into a relationship, they’ll start giving you false hope on how they’ll get married to you once their contract is approved, then you’ll start seeing them as husband already and start giving them money and sharing assets with them.

Before you know they’ll ask you for a huge amount of money to run a project that they’ll pay you back later, once you give them the money, they’ll go and do your introduction or engage you and will start milking you uncontrollably cos in your mind they’re husband already.

At the same time, doing all that they’re having side chicks here and there. Before you’ll wake to reality it has already consumed all your time, money, and effort, making it difficult for you to leave him again. Then you’ll start fighting and nagging him which will then result to violence or you’ll start fighting other side chicks to leave your man. It’ll linger to going diabolic, having a child with him and ending up a single mother.

Abuja big girls be wise. We all know the pressure is getting worse.

Tomorrow men will be all over the place claiming women don’t give anything to men … but in this Abuja this Lugbe especially it’s women that are housing men n i ok aging their bill and all they get as reward is beatings and murder.. beggining if this year news from sane Lugbe of a lady that was killed by her fiancé who she was housing n he locked her dead body up n left with her money and ATMs and texed her family that he has killed her they should go pick up her body … he was caught when he was planning to relocate to South Africa…a lot of lazy dubious and evil men are so much in this Abuja ..they don’t want to work they fish out single women with money and want to feast on them ..take a look at the case of tonto and empress and the blackmailers and abusers they met In Abuja…honestly being a single successful women in Abuja is like a death trap finding people withh to true intentions is like trying to ass a camel 🐪 to the eyes of a needle 🪡

You truly can never know someone. She isn't here to speak for herself. Of course he will make I look like self defense. But what did you do after she died....her car and phone? Not call police or ask neighbors for help....will you gerrout? Igbo men sha..

As a survivor of domestic abuse I believe the man. And this is the reason why I got out of my marriage , because my ex husband was very abusive and will threaten my life and I can recount occasions where he will be hitting me and I thought of hurting him so bad but I couldn’t , but if I had some anger issues just little I am sure I or him wouldn’t have been alive today. So yes the man may be telling the truth .

And he is still looking fresh are you sure this fool is in the police station, all this young boys go and hustle, if truly she was abusing you why didn’t you leave ? Greedy fool thank God you were arrested face the law

Can you imagine this sorry excuse of a man. She was abusing you and you stayed? You saw free car, free accommodation, everything free! You intention from the one set was greed because if hitting her with a pestle was a mistake, you would have stayed back to ensure all was well instead of running off with her car and phones. Oh Mr Longer throat, you had a motive! I wish the worst of all. Now, if you a single lady doing well in Abuja, please be mindful of the kind of men you roll with. Many are looking for their next free accommodation and how to extort you in the name of love. From fake love up and down. Some Abuja Men are viciously heartless. They will ruin you!

most women that date broke guys and sponsor them are desperate to marry. It’s also in this same app you’d those broke boys insulting women that say they don’t want to date broke men. I just wish women will be comfortable in being single and take their time in choosing who they want to marry and not just settle. If also they don’t meet any man, they should have a baby and be okay with life.

Abuja men and free things with their contract that never come even after 10years.. you will keep hearing i work with the Ministry of long life and I'm expecting a contract of 10bilion mtshewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

he gave you her car, u sold it, she raised her voice at u out of anger u hit her with kitchen pistle and drove another of her car out with her phones and other valuables while she was on the floor crying 😢😢😢😢😢 u didn't make effort to use the car to rush her to hospital oO. Mr. Tochukwu Edeh may u never find favour again in this life🙏

Before your anger, resentment or outrage gets to this point, can you please leave the woman or man? One thing we forget is that we all are capable of anything. We just need the right amount of trigger/motivation to do and undo. Keep being in that volatile relationship one day you go do wetin you think say you no go fit do and it will be too late by then. Fix things as quickly as possible and when you can’t, take the best decision that keeps both parties safer and saner.

Why won’t she raise her voice over a car she bought for you and you sold it without even informing her ehn? Goodness, gracious. She could have given any of her re la toons that car but she chose to give you. Omo ehn Make we no use our hand buy our death o

Please let's call a spade a spade biko alot of these jobless niggas are out there looking for sugar mommy to spoil them, too many of them live in Abuja. how this beauty is gone. Why deceive people all in the name of love

😢 When I saw this post, I remembered the advice my grandfather gave me at my Uncle's wedding while we were sitting close to each other next to the Music Band. The music was so loud I couldn't hear what he said.😢

This guy took advantage of the lady. She housed you fed u and also bought you a car and you have the guts to kill her and even began selling her properties. Hey dude you’re heartless and I pray justice prevail in this matter

There are people your life should never meet. May you not meet them in Jesus name.

Young girls appreciate love when you're young not when you're getting old you start buying love with money. Someone who loves you will never make you cry send this guy to life imprisonment.