'He Met Me In Lagos Jumping Danfo And Now Ex-husband Shamed Me After Traditional Wedding Because Of My Parents Uncompleted Building.' Lady Laments

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A Nigerian mother of two, Uchenna, has narrated how her ex-husband shamed her because of her parents' uncompleted building. According to the post she shared on Facebook on Sunday, July 10, the incident happened after their traditional wedding. 


Read the post below...

 

'He Met Me In Lagos Jumping Danfo And Now Ex-husband Shamed Me After Traditional Wedding Because Of My Parents Uncompleted Building.' Lady Laments


"I remember when we got back from my traditional marriage, 'unku' said "you lied to me and I went to your village and you didn't even have a house". I looked at myself. When did I lie?," 

 

"You met me in lagos jumping danfo and you thought what? He was not wrong. We've always been rich. The money part of wealth or riches is only a fraction of what wealth indeed is. Wealth of character, Wealth of values

 

"Anyway, the person who tried to shame my parents' uncompleted building ...neither his parents nor grandparents had a block or kiosk to their names in their life time.

 

"My parents completed their building and my mum lived there for 7 years before she went to be with the Lord...7 years is longer than most Igbo families utilise their village homes... just saying. There's no peace for the wicked." 


'He Met Me In Lagos Jumping Danfo And Now Ex-husband Shamed Me After Traditional Wedding Because Of My Parents Uncompleted Building.' Lady Laments

'He Met Me In Lagos Jumping Danfo And Now Ex-husband Shamed Me After Traditional Wedding Because Of My Parents Uncompleted Building.' Lady Laments

'He Met Me In Lagos Jumping Danfo And Now Ex-husband Shamed Me After Traditional Wedding Because Of My Parents Uncompleted Building.' Lady Laments

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Family & ParentingLast activity 2 months ago

Eeyah! How did a beautiful girl like you fall into the hands of an animal such as your ex-husband? Such a young lady sounds more like she's mannered as well. Don't worry dear, he's not for you. Your own hubby is on his way, and when he comes, he will love you for whom you are and who you're going to be and both of you will live happily forever.

Anonymous

2 months ago

Family & ParentingLast activity 2 months ago

Yes, if the story is true, then the guy must be a greedy and lazy gold-digger. From her other posts on social media, she presents the guy as a comfortable guy with money but refused to give her. Can someone that know the two of them tell us if the unku was working and where, when they met and got married? This will probably show he needed her to survive or improve his life. Same applies to the lady. Was she working and jumping danfo to work? What sort of family did both of them come from that made the unku pursue her for her family money and family village house?


Family & ParentingLast activity 2 months ago

This life just no balance at all. He probably got another intension and his family pride did not allow him.

Anonymous

2 months ago

Family & ParentingLast activity 2 months ago

I knew both of them when they got married. The guy studied engineering and had been working in one of the big 4 auditing firms (pwc, Deloitte or KPMG) for three years before they married while the girl was just finishing her nysc.


While the girl said she was jumping danfo, he had a small jeep then. Only her eldest brother had a job then in politics and her parents were retired and living in world bank quarters, Owerri. She studied in polytechnic nekede and the guy studied in UNN.


Her younger sister was not in school for 3 years because there was no money to pay her school fees. After marriage uchenna became the breadwinner of their family though she was the 5th child of 6 children. Her ex was the last child and only son in his family and basically lacked nothing. It's possible he made that comment as a joke, but like someone asked, how come they remained married for 10-12 years after the comment was made and it's now being posted on social media now?

Anonymous

2 months ago

Family & ParentingLast activity 2 months ago

Is this a real story or “Tales By Moonlight “story, no context, no nothing, just a feel good story, ngwanu we have seen it, ok.


Anyway, don't want to conclude until I hear from the man too. I judge reading different books. But if what she said is to fly then, the man was coming to gold dig

Anonymous

2 months ago

Family & ParentingLast activity 2 months ago

It is not by beauty ooh.. For her to even post such and I just checked her online, seems like she's into ex-bashing, I can already tell she lacks character. Beauty will fade, the man don see her finish and has probably seen there's nothing more to her apart from the 'pyhsical beauty', which will only make the union last for a few months or maybe years...

Family & ParentingLast activity 2 months ago

VERY BAD HIM TO TALK LIKE THAT BUT IT IS WELL BUT I HAVE A QUESTION, DID HE LEFT YOU BECAUSE OF YOUR FAMILY CONDITION OR WHAT?


Anyway, don't want to conclude until I hear from the man too. I judge reading different books. But if what she said is to fly then, the man was coming to gold dig

Family & ParentingLast activity 2 months ago

Please learn to tolerate something's when you want to marry...Give people some democracy... We live in a selfish world though... People want you to meet their standard, but they may not even be good enough for your standard.


But is Is the idiot marrying the girl's parent's house or the girl herself


Anonymous

2 months ago

Family & ParentingLast activity 2 months ago

Some people hide their life's details from loved ones but some are comfortable telling the whole world their story, people are sure different.


Likely she was trying to act rich in Lagos and the guy fell for it. Truth is most Naija women always try to act fake. Heard somewhere about a girl who visited a guy's house in Lagos and complained the house wasn't well furnished. She was complaining seriously. The guy then paid a return visit and found that the girl's father house had no fence and was shabbily built on the outskirts of Lagos. Haha the guy took off

Anonymous

2 months ago

Family & ParentingLast activity 2 months ago

If you've met uchenna before, you'll see how absurd and stupid these stories she makes up are. The first thing that will come to your mind when you meet her is: "who is this wild and heavy runs girl?". Then you'll notice her wedding ring or talks about a husband and next thing that will come to your mind is: "who is the unfortunate man than married this thing?". Uchenna is claiming to be a victim but if you know her, you'll know she could never be intimidated by any human, animal or even the devil himself.


She is domineering. She would stare you in the eyes, tap you on the shoulders and shout you down to make her point. Her voice is always the loudest and if you make any reasonable point, she'll laugh it out to cover up. She argues with passion and never with intelligence. She is the sort of lady that would visit your home and see you serving your husband and will right in front of your hubby, insult you for being used as a slave and then will ask your hubby why he wouldn't go to the kitchen to get his own food and to stop treating you as a slave.


Uchenna, to be abused or shamed or insulted by anyone including her ex? Never!!! Uchenna would sell her body and soul even to the lowest bidder that can guarantee her to kill the hubby, if he dared lay a finger on her. The first time I met uchenna to discuss getting a nanny for my mother in the east, she told me she was having serious issues with a lady that makes cake in phc and another that is married to a biker, because they were trying to steal her nannies from her. She warned me not to do same. So after I got the nanny and deployed her straight to my mum's house, i visited them and decided to speak to the girl. I asked her about her madam, she laughed and said...aunty, let's not talk about her please.


I then asked about the ex-husband. The nanny said - oh the pastor. That she met other nannies that were passing through uchenna house and they all had the following thing to say about him. That he had a carton filled with bibles in their home which he would give to ask the nannies and then preach to them and pray with them to receive Christ. He would insist that they be of good behavior because they now represent the family of God. Does this strike you as a man that is an animal and can victimize uchenna?


Please think and ask questions. If you have ever gotten a nanny from uchenna, call them and ask them about her ex husband. These stories are easy to verify. If you see a woman that has suffered the things uchenna writes about, she'll be shy and withdrawn and easily intimidated. This is not uchenna nwigwe.

Family & ParentingLast activity 2 months ago

A beauty. She has brought up a very interesting topic, should one invest in a house that one rarely spends time in? I personally think a home in the village does not have any economic value, at best a sentimental value. That said, ‘unku’ seems to have married for the wrong reasons. Instead of enjoying his traditional wedding day, he was busy counting blocks at his traditional wedding.

Anonymous

2 months ago

Family & ParentingLast activity 2 months ago

Likely she was trying to act rich in Lagos and the guy fell for it. Truth is most Naija women always try to act fake. Heard somewhere about a girl who visited a guy's house in Lagos and complained the house wasn't well furnished. She was complaining seriously. The guy then paid a return visit and found that the girl's father house had no fence and was shabbily built on the outskirts of Lagos. Haha the guy took off

Anonymous

2 months ago

Family & ParentingLast activity 2 months ago

Uchenna, I've known you and your family since you were a little girl and I've read many of your articles and was too weak to write. I am still shocked how you could continue on social media and lie to yourself and your whole world.


I can't say I'm surprised your family have kept quiet. I just had to ask, since you built your case on the wealth your family has in character and values. As a child, have you ever been caught for stealing at alakukor (Lagos) and you lied that it was your little sister and not you? Have you ever run away from home to a man's house in Onitsha for 4 days after secondary school because of an argument with your mother?


Have you ever borrowed money from people and failed to pay them back? Under what circumstances did your father lose his job at NBL? You may wish to ask him. Does he have a child out of wedlock? Your eldest brother was called the general when we were in university, do you know why? Do you know the roles he played in politics in Abuja where we lived as youths? Are two of your sisters - the one above 45 (divorced from here native doctor husband after 2 years of marriage) and the younger of almost 40 married?


Have you ever been arrested for human trafficking? What exactly is the wealth of character and values your family possess? Linda ikeji, can you carry out an investigative journalism and find out who this lady uchenna nwigwe is? Ask people that know her from over 15 years (even before she married) about her character and values. Also ask about the young man she married and the upbringing the guy had, then compare them and know who has better character and value. It's really an easy thing.

Family & ParentingLast activity 2 months ago

Gold digging niqqa. But, I don’t understand? How is this supposed to help the current situation of Nigeria? Bringing someone’s marital woes online? Can we just put head together to discuss how to make Nigeria great again? Issues like this should be dealt with in their families. Not us that don’t know them and can’t be bothered! 

Anonymous

2 months ago

Family & ParentingLast activity 2 months ago

In this UAE we are holding body, that's how you come in and say that your husband refused to give you money yet you've been living with different nannies for 3 years here in a fully furnished 3 bedroom house; my sister, how are you getting your money?


You are not working and got your documents under false pretense of working on a restaurant....you that can't cook!! Your family with impeccable family did not question that you are dating a married man here, it's for your father and sister to find and cross leg for the past two months here.


With so much wealth in character and values, why are there not in their homes or popular village house and earning an honest living in Nigeria as opposed loving off your married boyfriend? Wealth in character, indeed. It's to be posting pictures of yourself dressed as a mermaid, dressing your daughter up as a mermaid and posing with your father, on your Facebook that you know.


What character and values are you teaching us snapping with your father and daughter, dressed like a mermaid? Uchenna, focus on making a life for yourself. Stop all these lies and fake stories and manipulations. The truth will come out one day and all the people you've defrauded will come for you. Quit, while you still have some little dignity. Don't allow people that know you here to tell your stories.


We pity your kids that you have kept out of school for 3 years because of your illegal status here - character and values indeed?

Anonymous

2 months ago

Family & ParentingLast activity 2 months ago

Ada in the comment just called him an animal. My sister, I know you are speaking out of passion and previous information you may have, when you can unku an animal; but let's be careful and understand the meaning of words we use loosely.


Surely, you didn't call him an animal for going after her family house or assumed riches, that's why I think, it's probably because you know him or live with them. So, let's analyze the term "he is an animal". Someone like that cannot hide his animalistic characters. Everywhere he is, he fights and displays animalistic tendencies. He surely can't work in a bank, oil company, corporate and customer interfacing jobs.


He would have been sacked in various places of work and would have been in physical fights in every circle he belongs to, even amongst his neighbors. Infact, he can't even do yahoo yahoo work, which requires patience and charm. An animal will work in car parks, do shady business, and all sorts of odd jobs that do not require repeat customers.


But let's assume Unku is half man and half animal, and has the ability to switch on and off his animality- then one can only assume that you have never seen his animalistic characters but only draw your conclusions from what Uche writes on her social media page; or do you really know unku? If you are relying on what Uche writes to call him an animal, then are you aware that their divorce proceedings are finalized, and the court threw out all her lies due to lack of evidence and inconsistent stories?


An animal cannot hide!! Use your words wisely. Don't call God's creation an animal, it doesn't tell so well of your character and values. And if you are uche's friend or just a concerned Nigerian, it doesn't tell well that you make such comments about a human instead of gently making your points.


Be guided, that's what supporters of Peter obi and being admonished to do. I hope you have your PVC....we don't want "an animal" to win this election o..... lol

Anonymous

2 months ago

Family & ParentingLast activity 2 months ago

Why did you rush to marry someone you barely know? Cause from the look of things you both barely know each other but rush into marriage what were you expecting marrying a stranger?


How did a beautiful girl like you fall into the hands of an animal such as your ex-husband?


Are you married to an incomplete building or to a person ...never marry a boy in a grown man body

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