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It seems you have feelings for her . The earlier you understand that your work colleagues are not your friend the better for you. They can run you down at anytime just to get ahead in the company and also try avoid office politics.


I can totally relate bro. You are always available when they need you but never respond when you need them. That is how selfish and self centered people can be. Block her ass and end the friendship. She can NEVER be useful to you

You must be single/unmarried!


The average married woman put her phone in her bag. The phone might ring like 5 times before she picks it.


Secondly, you are not one of her inner circles of gist mongers therefore you will not receive priority in call-back.


You could have asked her gently when you called her. It could be something worth hearing and if one had too many missed calls, sometimes you miss out on one or two. She could have apologized if you called her attention to it...


Guys of these days sha...


Sorry bro!

Advise your friend to go for nursing..


Gone are those days that we decide based on passion, now it is strictly based on finance and job security. Except you don't have the brain for it..


If I had known, I would have studied medicine at all cost...

Anonymous

2 days ago

Don't know why I am tempted to write this here, maybe because I gave up such opportunity 13years ago which I still regret today.


So from experience, I am telling you to go do that nursing now if you don't want to regret like me because you may never get job for life with that Bch certificate of yours Sadly and unfortunately.

Anonymous

2 days ago

You did the right thing son. you are now a grown man. law of growing up is take care of those who take care of you and show concern of those who do the same. unless he or she is feeding you or paying your nepa bills, those are the two life support that want to kill a Man in this Buhari government.


you did good, infact you would have started since the day you were aware she doesn't pick your call that's a trait of narcissism, I guess she has many SIMPS at her feet that's why she feels she can do anyhow

Her brother has given her the best advice, however, she is an adult who has the right to do whatever pleases her. I think she's still basking in the euphoria of the "graduate" tag.


Modified: let me explain a bit.


University based nursing leads to d award of RN and BNSc (and at times RM, RPHN).


BNSc, like almost all other undergraduate degrees is an academic qualification while RN is the professional qualification.


However, UK's demands are for professional nurses(not academic nurses) hence the equal recognition given to both.


Now, school of nursing is better in her case because, 3 years is 3years there. In exactly 3 years, she would be done and start processing her UK things. Her other option if she so much hate School of Nursing is going back to the university for BNSC, and ASUU will be smiling @ that rn 


Once she's in the UK with d School of Nursing certificate, she can run her BNSc there in a year or so while working. Foreign degree  


Moving to the UK to study Nursing (of whichever version) or for MSc. will be like moving a student whereas moving with school of Nursing RN is like moving a worker. You need to see how some trusts pamper migrant nurses.


Like I said earlier, she is an adult with absolute right to her choices

There are seasoned bankers in Nigeria that went to UK, Canada or US and switched straight to nursing. She should accept advice of someone who loves her over there or gather money to go do msc public health(wch is very expensive & competitive).

Anonymous

2 days ago

PLEASE LET HER APPLY FOR NURSING SHARPERLY.

MY WIFE STUDIED ZOOLOGY,SHE IS IN SCHOOL OF NURSING PRESENTLY.

Unless your friend is passionate about science or research, I’ll advise she takes the advice of that person and go to nursing school if she plans to relocate here, although that’s still dependent on whether she has passion for healthcare. If she’s rich enough and doesn’t want to study in Nigeria, she can build up healthcare experience and apply to accelerated Masters in Nursing programs (Pre-registration) in the UK. It’s 2 years instead and she can register with NMC as a UK RN after graduation.


When you talk about maybe there being another alternative with her biochemistry degree, I did biosciences as well and a bioscience masters here. I was able to get 2 job offers, one as a lab person in the NHS and another as a research assistant. I took the research assistant post cuz it’s at the No1 Uni here in the UK (UniofCam).


However I’ve found research / being confined to a lab to be boring, and tbh most people going down that route would have to spend longer years getting a PhD, else you’ll not be able to get a higher up position. However Nursing seems more interesting to me, reason why I’m starting an accelerated nursing program in 3months. Most Nigerians like me too studied Microbiology / Biochemistry / Cell Biology / Molecular Biology and the likes as a first degree because we didn’t meet the cut off for medicine or nursing or dentistry or the other medical courses.


So if that’s the case for your friend, she should grab this opportunity for a career in healthcare. It’s totally worth it (IMO).

He likes you. Who else notice? Give am chance, the simp no get mind to ask you out...

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