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RelationshipLast activity 7 hours ago

What's wrong with you all? Must you always bring up this topic of relocating abroad all the time? 

For you to be thinking of relocating abroad means you have a high-paying job here in Nigeria, so why not just settle down and INVEST in different businesses? But no, you want to go and be an enslaved person in another man's country! If not for our bad leaders, this country would be one of the best in the world. Forget, no, be whining!

If she's interested in relocating abroad, she should be ready to foot ALL THE BILLS na. Does she think it's easy?  

Well, all I have to tell you is that: DO NOT FORGET THE POWER WOMEN HAVE OVER THERE IN THOSE EUROPEAN COUNTRIES! So you wouldn't return to this Forum after a few years to wail to us how your wife threw you out of the house. 


8 hours ago

RelationshipLast activity 7 hours ago

You are the man and would be the head of your future family. Do what your mind tells you to. Your fiancée has her reasons. Probably she's experiencing Japa syndrome and wants to travel out because other people are doing so. In all, don't do and rush things that appear inconsequential to you.

Marriage Neva start una don dey seek to advise

Bro, futuristic issues like relocation, finances, career path, number of kids, etc. are problems you and your partner will sit, discuss and strike a balance on.

What will work for A may not work for B. on this relocation issue, everyone will tell you to be a man and do what your mind says. But again, you may not be entirely correct, just as your fiancé may not be completely wrong.

Marriage is a Union. Just come together and decide. Some say why they should not relocate. If they are in your shoes, they might relocate. So you and the lady should determine what you want or go your separate ways because if things go wrong when you relocate, you will blame her, and if things go wrong when you choose to remain in Nigeria, she will blame you. 

BLISSFUL MARRIAGE IS NOT ACHIEVED BY BEING AUTOCRATIC. Always have a healthy conversation and hear each other's reason for any intended action


8 hours ago

RelationshipLast activity 8 hours ago

Why is the world becoming this cold? Why are humans, both males, and females becoming this ruthless? How can a woman who loves you suggest that she can be comfortable having a distant marriage ( Canada and Nigeria) with you while you are dating? I understand that people can exploit people sometimes, but we should all have limits abeg. She wants to relocate permanently, later further her education, graduate, and then ditch your sorry a$$ with laws favoring only women.

She’s so selfish and self-centered. She wan use you to actualize her abroad dreams. Simping doesn’t end well.


8 hours ago

RelationshipLast activity 8 hours ago

For your fiancee to be comfortable with the idea of leaving here means she only cares about herself, you sound like a weakling, IMO. Tell her straight up you are not interested in going. If she is, then the whole thing should be called off if you grant her, her wish is a lose-lose situation for you, you go dey here for Naija, she go dey there they give you children wey no be your own, if you like listen if like go ahead, no say I no tell you.

RelationshipLast activity 8 hours ago

Don't allow yourself to be pushed into relocating to Canada.

If things are working out for you here and you strongly believe your destiny is here, then remain in Nigeria!

FamilyLast activity 18 days ago

Start handling the upkeep yourself. Don't give her a dime again.

Maybe she has friends she's trying to compete with or brag to about how much her mumu gives her for upkeep.

Maybe she's also saving part of it.

If truly the money is only for upkeep, then she is not prudent. Stop giving her altogether.


6 months ago

FamilyLast activity 18 days ago

This is a clear situation of an angry black woman. Clam her down. Buy her flowers and explain to her that you both need to start saving for retirement children college funds

My Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of ₦50,000 And She Also Has A Good Paying Job


6 months ago

FamilyLast activity 18 days ago

Did you marry your wife or did she marry you? This question is very important because based on the answer you'll be able to get appropriate advice. If she's the one that married you, basically she did your ugly babboon looking ass a favor and she's out of your league then my broda step up your game or she'll leave your ass.

Now if you're a real nigga and you married her then for freaking sake MAN UP! Even if you no get shin shin, she has no right to disrespect you but that's not even the case here. You dey drop ₦50k, dey buy food items, dey pay for utilities and extras and she still carry fire head? Make I no talk say thunder fire her left yansh .

Guy listen well and listen well well, you are already exhibiting signs of serious health conditions, no woman no matter how much you love her is worth dying over. I repeat NO WOMAN!

First thing is first, take back control of your home by sitting her down and laying down your grievances, if she refuses to yield, tell those grievances to her parents or family members, if that also fails, find someone she respects and let it be known to him or her.

Finally, if all else fails, create space. Leave on a trip of one month or more, NO DROP SHIN SHIN, I repeat NO DROP SHIN SHIN. What you'll realize is that she'll do one of two things when you return, she'll either have a brain reset and appreciate what you have been given her or she'll leave.

Either way the problem goes away. For a woman that appreciates the days of ₦50k will surely appreciate the days of 200k and one that does not appreciate the days of ₦50k, will surely leave your ass sooner or later........PEACE!

FamilyLast activity 18 days ago

The first question I would like to ask before I answer is, is 50k enough for your monthly family upkeep?

Are you conscious of the rate of inflation since you started giving that 50k? First understand your wife (within reason) before trying to get her to understand you.

Get Her to draw up a budget then you guys should prioritize it.

Meanwhile, how is your sex life ? A lot of marital problems are either aggravated or calmed down depending on your level of sexual intimacy or other Iove languages. You need to know, then learn to speak Her love language.

Best wishes.

NigeriaLast activity one month ago

This man too dey cap.

Bros, no one asked you to explain... Try dey close mouth sometimes. According to him, most northerners wanted power to remain in the North even after President Muhammadu Buhari must have completed his eight years in office

Really ?... Ok oooo..

I hope those urchins hoping their tiny god will inherit Buhari's block votes are reading this.

E be like say everybody go answer em papa name in 2023 

Northerners Wanted Power To Remain In The North Even After President  Buhari Must Have Completed His Eight Years In Office - Kwankwaso

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