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Anonymous

22 days ago

Family & ParentingLast activity 22 days ago

What Do You Think? As A Mother, If Your Son Prioritise You Over His Wife Then You’ve Failed As A Mother

A mother is different, a wife is different. They aren’t in a competition. Both are priority. As a man once you start placing your wife and mother on a scale, you have failed as a sensible man to know not to do that. Receive sense. Your mother birthed you, your wife ll birth your kids. Two different roles. I can’t imagine comparing my dad with my husband. They are both priority. Even though I don’t have a dad anymore I wouldn’t do that mistake of comparing the family I was birthed from to the family I moved to and has become mine also. That’s just not wise

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your dad and mum came together from different families and made theirs that’s why they have you when you make your family it’s your number one priority that’s why we have failed marriage because we still fall back to our families that are not doing well most of us don’t want to be like our parents but we place then on high because they gave birth to us we just deceiving ourselves

Anonymous

22 days ago

read my comment well . Comprehension is paramount. I am simply saying comparisons shouldn’t be it. Of cause I am my husband’s priority but not me asking between me and his mum, who is priority or I am expecting things like that. A mother is a mother, a wife is a wife. Both have high priorities, not saying one has priority over the other is what I don’t support. Do you understand now????

any man that ll say he priotize me over his mum, I don’t want please. I and his mum are not in a competition. I have my place in his life cause we would literally be each other’s everything but his mother is priority too compared to non cause his mother is his mother, I am not his mother and vice versa. If we were talking about Co wives, I would understand but that’s just my opinion though.

Anonymous

22 days ago

Family & ParentingLast activity 22 days ago

What Do You Think? As A Mother, If Your Son Prioritise You Over His Wife Then You’ve Failed As A Mother

Men need to know what balancing means. Some get married and totally forget about their immediate family especially their parents. To call their parents to see how they are faring, na war for some of them. Afi be eni wipe aye nshey won.
If your marriage means prioritising your wife and totally forgetting about the family you grew with, then there is a big problem!

MarriageLast activity one month ago

Not true. Her husband is a deadbeat Dad, and it doesn't help that she's depressed and feeling alone. The guy couldn't be bothered. He's gotten his babies and has left the woman to worry. Loading! She definitely staged the questions as an opportunity to quietly voice out

This doesn't speak well of the husband.

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Anonymous

one month ago

This one is ready for divorce already!! But again, I wonder why women will always want marriage so badly, and once they get it, they start spewing trash or acting silly.

She wants to speak out but shes scared of the Rufai family. Shes sad and lonely

Smart! I thought as much that she definitely staged the questions

Anonymous

one month ago

MarriageLast activity one month ago

What poll did you conduct to know men are skipping their responsibilities? Anyways, you are entitled to your opinion.

Taa sharaaap there!!. If you married a good man, you would have some help, but you married that idiot that is always online bragging and bullying instead of helping his wife at home. Deal with it!!!

Anonymous

one month ago

Family & ParentingLast activity one month ago

Hehe my papa fit talk this kin thing. E no easy to get Religious parents o. Recently my papa called me to say that someone broke kola nuts, and God revealed to them that the kola nut represents me, my younger brother, and our late eldest brother. Lol, I swear e no funny. I gave him a piece of my mind, and he ended the call.

NigeriaLast activity one month ago

The difference then & now is that even if they were doing hookup.. they hid it like palliative. It was always a secret !
These days,people literally carry placard to announce what they are selling!
In short, dem get shame pass our generation. Shame so they can protect their children/future children from societal stigmatization which is now lacking amongst newer generation…

Family & ParentingLast activity one month ago

Young ones need to be careful about social media, even if I don't necessarily believe what her mum wrote. One thing is sure, though, that no matter what anyone thinks, evil people still demand pictures, especially recent ones, to cast spells on people. I'll advise people to pray over everything, even their social media posts. You have nothing to lose by begging and pleading with the Blood of Jesus Christ over your actions. Better safe than sorry. So many people have fallen into depression, mental issues, and different situations without knowing where it is coming from. The woke people might think this is a joke, but a word is enough for the wise. May God save us from ignorance and evil in Jesus' Mighty Name. Amen.

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Just imagine the high rate of the ignoramus

Religion has finished so many people.

Shut up! Our major problem is over-religiousness in Naija

Anonymous

one month ago

NigeriaLast activity one month ago

Even when God created Eve for Adam, it was with conditions. So sex has always been used as a transaction. He told Adam I would give you a partner molded from your rib(meaning compatible with you) that will be your helper and comforter(meaning sex and warmth).

So from time immemorial, there was always the understanding that a man takes care of the woman's needs and the woman makes him happy in bed. But the difference is exclusivity and decency. The intention was not for women to open their punani for every dike. But instead, those that they are in serious relationships with hopes of leading to marriage. The woman should negotiate her marriage terms with any man that wants to enjoy her pussy before she gives it up. So they both must like each other.

This includes unmarried or married men polygamous if their cultures permit. In biblical times polygamous was the order of the day. What we practice now is something influenced and sanitized by the euro-west cultures. Then, of course, there are the oloshos. That is just what they are pussy sellers with no marriage or settling intentions but rather for purely monetary gains.

Anonymous

one month ago

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tually went for one church convention & i tried as much i could to avoid sitting close to ladies becos of their yeye noise & irrelevant gist, but finally i got a sit which happened to be among another life changing experience.

Opposite me not too far was a young mother with her son of 6 years or thereabouts & beside me was another young mother with her daughter of same age group 🤔 As I was about to be serious with what i came for that was when someone pulled my ear & i turned gently & it was the little girl & she laughed & I smiled back too😁 & she started making some funny sounds,then it dawned on me that she was suffering from autism (Special Children) The boy opposite me was the same too🤔

I couldn't do anything than just play along becos it might be anybody... But what got me teary was when the girl child playfully jumped into the arms of a passerby inside the church & the woman angrily pushed that child away & as if that one wasn't enough for anyone to react to then some minutes again the girl tickled somebody beside her & the young lady immediately flared up rudely in her loud voice & asked the mother to hold her daughter na.


From people's reactions the woman started crying & telling who cares to hear that she is not God that created that little girl. I couldn't do anything than just picture what happened all through that day.. pls there are some situations one can't change. Try help people in anyway we can. If those kids were yours, Will you kill them ??? Where is humanity???


This actually happened Zion Prayer Movement Outreach I gave the woman words of encouragement & also pray God's hand come upon such children to get instant healing.

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The story was very touching and I understand how emotional u got... but I have to just laugh 😂😂😂 why becos it happened in the church and the so call children of God are the once angry at an innocent autistic child, it's a shame cos we only have church goers not true Christians in heart. So I have to laugh at them 🤣 😂

Young man don’t add or specify with rosary, u have spoken well earlier don’t spoil it. Meanwhile ask dem to join NSPPD and leave the rest to the creator.

Anonymous

one month ago

he shldnt add rosary yet u are marketing ur own church mtcheewwww upon he said Zion prayer movement which is catholic dominated and he too might b a Catholic which all Christians originated from!!! Enyia shiiifffft joooo

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This wasn’t enough reason to record, just report to her boss. So what the difference between you and her. You left him under the snow why videoing her. Mum, your first step is to bundle him with winter jacket if you care that much. I just felt this video is an excuse to get rid of the home care giver. I wear hoodie most of the time during winter. She can just caution her if she doesn’t like him without winter jacket during snow time. My 2cents✌️

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