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Not just Bank job sir... Nearly every salaried job outside Top management position is nothing but slavery and gradual descent into poverty.

Even doctors, pharmacists, engineers, etc, are no longer spared. The thing is to have something extra giving you the needed financial uplift, or like the Op, going into something that will truly pay you with less stress.

Stop calling your former banking job a job. its corporate slavery. aka slaves in suit and tie

I'm happy for you and thank God for you. theres nothing like freedom from Slave masters that call themselves bank executives. Gone are the days when we used to envy/admire men and women working in the bank. They looked so elegant, sharp and smart. now they are not different from labourers doing hard labourous jobs under a.c's and With machines

However op please be weary of broke, entitled and rude slay queen's that don't have money to pay but want to give you sex in exchange for their transport fare or those that have perfected the skills of accusing you of rudeness or sexual harassment. similarly avoid girlfriends of yahoo boys for the sake of your sanity. congratulations once again


Your level will change in some few weeks..

Don't relax... Work hard to secure a second car and give it to a trusted driver...

You can probably earn total 400k/m

My lady banker friend is depressed, desperate to leave her banking job,but she's struggling to find an alternative as she's the main bread winner, and can't just quit.

The thing is wearing her down mentally.

Some banking jobs are something else.


9 days ago

Well said. You guys are either poorly paid or you were entry level, either case, I am not contesting this as I have limited facts. However years ago as an SBE (Senior Banking Executive) my pay would not justify me leaving the job and doing Uber. The only issues i would have complained about are (1) humongous targets and (2) time constraints leading to lack of rest and stress. Please note, I was a back office staff (Legal Support Services). All in, whatever works. I was only clearing the fact that the OP was a contract staff (and his write-up also confirmed it).

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Look this doesn't matter at all. Be it contract or full time. The point is working from the back end doesn't in a bank doesn't pose much to u. U aren't asked to work during the weekends, u are probably not even given any target. As a well knowledge person in the operations(thank God I moved on from the slavery) you practically never have time for anything and u think being paid a paltry 250k as an ET is enough? The man moved on from his banking job. This I admire seeing that if he makes a consistent 10k daily, that would land him minimum of 200k monthly assuming he doesn't want to be saving 100% his earnings. Alas! He would even make much more with a lot of effort and God's grace and still have ample reserved time for other things. We must encourage big moves like this! Now how many of the bank workers save that? (Remember am talking about savings). Most bankers don't even have up to 1/4 of their salary before the next payday.


The world has changed, and nobody should be doing a contract job in a bank of less than 100k per month with all your time taken to do nothing with your life

Why will a young man take a job less than 100k, work 7 to 7 with hard labour and no career growth nor transferable skills. Even full staff in banks don dey japa not to talk of contract staff, it is the most evil thing u can do to yourself

Only a masochist should work in the bank as a contract staff

You'll have to come to the continent. You're choosing a life partner, not a boyfriend.

There are a lot of good men and bad men as it is everywhere in the world.

The cultures are very different of course. There are a lot of things AAs do that would shock an average African and vice versa.

But you have to come to the continent to make that choice when you're ready, this are things of the heart it is imperative you do it with absolute caution and an open mind.

I wish you all the best.

PS: There is also a large African community in America, the easiest place to meet African men is the churches.

So, you can explore your options there.

You ought not to waste time and energy praying never to have a particular kind of woman instead you ought to be pitying a woman who will not be the kind that is deserving of your good side that will be unfortunate to come close to you.

- When the good one with good intentions comes, you treat her queenly.

- When the bad but disingenuous one comes, you treat her cruelly overtly.

- When the bad haughty one comes, you disingenuously treat her cruelly covertly.

Summarily, the end goal, as a man, must always be that if someone must lose or get hurt, it shouldn't be you literally.

Godly, righteous, decent and resourceful wife.

IF you see her, dm me immediately, please


12 days ago

Unfortunately 95% of Nigerian ladies fall into your description.

So unfortunate.

Go to Nigeria Churches in your state of residence, please avoid RCCG. It is like a secret cult there.

Be a member and join the choir or any unit..

Speak to the pastor in charge...probably the pastor wife...and let her know what you looking for... We have hundreds of Nigerian or African men in those church also looking for a good wife to settle with...

The church will not choose for you, but they can guild you on who to marry with advice and and prayer...


I don’t blame her. If not for the bad leaders in Africa, why should any African man think of marrying an African American who is probably:

1. Lazy to work and on various government schemes like EBT, unemployment

2. Very rude, impatient and dangerous (could burn ur car, docs or even use a firearm on you)

3. Loves eating only cheese, and other unhealthy “burgers”, they consider our spicy goat/catfish peppersoup as nasty.

4. Can not cook shit.

5. Will call the police on you at will and may land a child support case on your head.

6. Again very rude and have no culture, hence will disrespect your gentle parents.

If u don’t wanna kill your parents, don’t marry an African American.

I’d rather marry from another African country than settle with any African American.

Not sorry!

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