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What's Your Experience On Spiritual Husband Or Dating A Girl From The Marine Kingdom


9 days ago

Speak to him privately, that guy is either playing games with you or is no longer interested in you.

I am a guy and let me tell you a bitter Truth, that boyfriend of yours might be playing on your intelligence, do not waste your time on a guy that has found another lover.

He can't be too busy to the extent that he won't have a proper time for you, no excuse for that.


11 days ago

A Seria-Leonian girl who has been eyeing me at Church and had started getting close one day during a night vigil outside the church building suddenly pulled me closer and stole a kiss. I was surprised. I didn't fight her but since that day I was using style to stay away from her. 

One day without asking her questions she came over to me and said "Bro. So and so, do you know I am from the sea?" I was shocked. I said how do you mean and she replied even my mum too. 

Really, I was not all that surprised because sometimes she looks neat and pretty and at a times she would look horrible and you'd wonder why. With those words from her, I gradually increased the gap I gave her. 

But I never told anyone her secret. I kept it to myself and myself alone.

These other incident happened to a friend. Trust me this is a true story. The person is my close pal.

To all atheists. This is real.

Don't mind typo errors please.

He was coming from Portharcourt to Ibadan. He boarded a car with a lady. He started chatting with girl and was buying things for the girl all the way. Food, perf and body cream.

Instead of going to Ibadan straight, he headed to Lagos with the girl . He eventually convinced the lady they should lodge at a hotel till the following day since it was already evening. The lady agreed.

They got a room and after a while they went to buy Suya and drinks as dinner. The hotel guy gave them a plate and forks. They ate and before they slept, the lady said she wanted to shower so she entered the bathroom. My guy too told the her that he wanted to ask the hotel manager something so he left the room. He actually went to keep his money with the manager because he didn't trust the girl. 

By the time he came back upstairs the lady had finished bathing and was on bed. My guy entered the bathroom too and took a bath. He came back and ask the babe they should have sex and she said she was tired and doesn't have interest. My guy talked and talked even begged. Babe no gree. Na so he applied force. 

The lady withdrew and suddenly rolled off bed and landed hard on the floor. She remained stiff and my guy ran to her picked her up and her eyes had turned like as if she was dead. My guy called her so tey no response. Na so he ran downstairs go call manager. They both rushed upstairs and met her same way he left her. 

They both carried her on the bed. And the manager told my guy he should not panic that they will find solution in the morning. So he left. And my guy could not sleep he was already shedding tears and he sat on the bed praying. 

Suddenly the lady rose up with the loudest noise roaring like a lion. Her eyes turned wild and the hair on her head stood up in strands. 

My guy said he didn't know that as loud as the noise was he was the only who heard it. He got to know that later.

He stood up and ran to the plate and picked a fork and he was shouting Jesus save me, Jesus save me. 

He said girl laughed and said He will not save you because this is not what He sent you. Then he started begging the girl. Then, she said you claim you are not married. Whose child are they doing the naming next tomorrow. 

My guy said it is mine. I am sorry. 

He said she said again "you went to give money to the man downstairs. Do you think I am thief? My guy said "I am sorry you are right. 

She now said "you are very lucky because you have been good to me on the way from Portharcourt. I would have taught you a lesson." 

Next time a woman says no to sex you don't force her okay? 

My guy said okay.

Then she said I forgive you, you can go to sleep. 

My guy thanked her but stayed awake all night. 

In the morning my guy went to collect the money and gave her some but she rejected it but rather she asked him to make a request and that she would grant it. 

My guy was afraid and said she should not worry

Then she left him and never took along all the things he bought for her on their way coming.

This is a true story. 

My guy would tell it all the time and never miss a line.


11 days ago

Some guys and ladies are super possessed. They have a source of supernatural power. They can do some crazy things your brain can never comprehend. 

One major thing I know for a fact about these possessed ladies is that, they all love sex... I have dated three at least. 

One once told me some scary shit about my life before we met. She also told me something about my life that will manifest after I am over 30. And in truth, things are playing out right now. 

I've seen one shut a door with just her eyes... E shock you?! Same girl would never dare to go near water wells, river or beach. Other things that I dont even wanna touch. 

Only an ignorant person would say they dont exist. They are everywhere.

If there is anything that captivate my attention in this post the part you said he would be online and still won't reply your chat or pick your calls.

All I can say to you at this junction, is that you deserve better. You deserve happiness too.

It seem like you are the only one still in that relationship...

Aunty move on. Accept that you have just received your breakfast and move on. If he were yours he would have stayed faithful. Some of us also distance relationship for years and the relationship culminated in wedding. Next time don't be in a hurry to get emotionally or sexually attached to any man no matter how nice he seems. This is to ensure that when you discover he is not meant for you you can easily move on with little stress...


9 days ago

Madam, are you waiting for prophet Elijah to tell you that your man is fvcking a white woman's pussy in Italy just to secure his permanent stay??

Your guy has moved on, the street is not funny, your man is in search for a better life and he's ready to settle down with a white woman for green card... Biko move on with your life Dear. I be guyman and I must tell you the truth.

This is the reason why I don't cherish long distance relationships. Since there's lack of communication from his end. I think you should move on. I know it's hard but trust me you won't regret your move. Communication is the key, No matter the situation he's going through. My sister you better move on, otherwise you'll keep waiting for years and he won't show up.


11 days ago

Horoscope is not of/from God.

Though it could remarkably strike one as accurate, perhaps most times, but that's exactly the plan.

It's basically one of the devil's successful programmes to make people ignorantly choose their yoke.

Saved souls are completely free of the devil's yoke because they've rather got Jesus'.

Please avoid horoscopes, zodiacs and the likes by all means.

Diasporan folks are designed to give hypertension. Some are normal, some are not. Your guy is obviously one of the abnormal ones. I don’t know what sign or proof you are looking for again. I like to think he has spoken loudly with his silence.

The best you can do is spell it out to him that you would be moving on. That way you don’t cheat or have any guilt on your mind. Detach yourself emotionally first. Distract yourself with work and hobbies. Slowly but surely, you would forget his existence.

That said, abroad is hard. Italy is harder.

Sometimes a man got to do what he got to do. Free the young man and free yourself too.

Never be afraid to move on.

Be prepared for anything and everything.

A carpenter in Nigeria might end up making you feel more loved and cherished, but you would never know until you heal and try again

The sign is clearly on the wall. Unfortunately he has chosen to move on with his life, hence him ignoring your messages. In all fairness he might be facing tough challenges in a foreign country, but the lifeblood of a long distance relationship is communication, and he has not availed himself to that.

The relationship is not just comatose, it is dead. Please move on and don't waste any more time on him. You deserve better treatment than this. It will not be easy because you are clearly so much into him, but your happiness and sanity also matter. I wish you well.

Wahala no dey finish na wa o

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